نص قرآني / حديث شريفDisagreement is normal. The Qur'an advises patience and noticing the good in the other: "If you dislike them, perhaps you dislike something in which Allah has placed much good" (4:19). When it persists, Allah advises mediation by two arbitrators, one from each family (4:35).
نص قرآني / حديث شريفIf life together becomes impossible, divorce is permitted, but the Qur'an asks that it be done in a fair and kind way: "Retain them with kindness or release them with kindness" (2:231), keeping the rights of the wife (mahr, maintenance during the waiting period, called idda) and the best interest of the children. Divorce rules (number of pronouncements, forms, judge's role) differ in the details among the schools and in each country's law.
Never hurt or humiliate: abuse is forbidden, and a spouse who suffers harm may seek help from family, a counsellor or a judge. Schools of law and scholars differ on some practical details; this lesson gives the common principles and flags differences without settling them. For your own situation, consult a qualified scholar.